So I am a competitive person but I try to limit it to against myself as in be better today then I was yesterday.
With this game I think the must win mentality is causing a huge issue and now with the decision to go B2P with a cash shop it will be heightened. I enjoy this game, I enjoy the quests, the advancement of my character and the different customization paths. Do I sometimes get upset in PvP when I feel that someone of a higher level easily beats me? Of course! But then I chide myself to learn the tactics and get better, to heal or run a siege equipment to contribute. I am asking everyone to really think about why do you play? Is it a grind to you? Are you doing things with the idea that you must be the best on an arbitrary leader board? If that is the case and you are enjoying that then good on you keep it up! But if you are not enjoying yourself or have gotten all the game play out of ESO please take a break or move on. I truly hope that you enjoyed your time in ESO but to hang around and hate on something is just dragging everything down, plus it is a worthless use of your time and effort.