People choosing to play the game differently to you are not wrong, bad, stupid or playing too much, or too little. They are just playing it differently to you, they don't need you to "correct" them. No one is playing the game wrong unless they are cheating or hurting others.
It was one of those time freezes (where you move but nothing else does, then to login screen but without any announcement information and passwords wouldn't be accepted etc)...strange outtage indeed.
I made my coffee and sat down on my computer with it, opened ESO and just started my chill solo dungeon runs just to clear my head a little bit as usual. But...