It took many pre 10 alts to get it but I think I just did:
In ESO pick the most appealing class (4 classes so its not that hard) and play it..That's pretty much it! You can fill ANY role you want with that class.
The thing is all class abilities use mana/magicka so they pretty much all cast lol
All classes can use a staff and bow so they all pretty much can be ranged lol
They all can wear any kind of armor with any combination lol
So back to square one and I am beginning to miss the rigid clarity of WoW class system
Here is what I have been looking for and just can not for the life of me figure it out:
Hate: Healing / Melee
Love: Ranged DPS / Caster DPS
Built to handle pulls of 3 with solid control in both PvP and PvE
Thanks