So whenever I play games with multiple races and factions I tend to go with the race that fits the faction so it "makes sense" lore wise. However in ESO I absolutely playing as a Dunmer but I dislike the EbonHeart Pact faction so I decided to go on Aldemri Dominion. I really love ADs story and being so close to the queen, however I feel weird that the queen puts so much trust in me who is a Dunmer. As I'm playing I feel weird being a Dunmer working for the AD but it's still fun to play.
Basically what I'm asking is, what can I tell myself about my character for it to make sense to be s Dunmer working so close to the AD queen? Is it normal for other races to work together in such prominent positions like this?
Thanks for taking the time to read this!