Alternatively you can queue for random and if a DLC shows up, you can drop group and eat the penalty while you swap to another toon and try again. If you get DLC a second time, repeat the process unt
This is actually something that confuses me more then anything else. I went through a dungeon with a 45 sorc that never did anything other the light attack.
Yeah, it's rough. Longest dps queue I've ever had was 50 minutes but I'm not going to lie and say I'm a tank or healer, even in the simpler dungeons - I'd feel bad about letting down the team.
ESO is far from 'dying'. You're solo que'ing as a DPS. There is always going to be a pretty hefty wait with that. Join a guild and group with people, socialize a bit. It's an MMORPG. Run with like-min