MEMORIAL TRIBUTE FOR A FALLEN GAMER COMRADE AND FRIEND

Lord_Etrigan

PS4 Server EU


Hallo everyone.

This is indeed a sad day as we mourn the passing of a dear friend who sadly lost her battle to cancer.

Nanny_Bean_bag as she was so fondly known, was loved and cherished by all who have had the privilege of meeting and interacting with her.

Nanny was known as the Oracle of Stolas, a title that was specially created for her as she was wise beyond her years and a role no one has been able to fulfill since. She was a friend and a confidant and someone whose shoulder you could cry on.

Nanny loved and breathed Eso, this was her go to when she felt sad but also when she just wanted to have fun. Her characters she created as well as her many home she bought and decorated paid testimony to the colorful and bubbly personality which made her unique.

I spend longs nights just chatting to Nanny about nothing and everything and her unique perspective and take on life was a breath of fresh air.

She was also funny and witty and we spend many a night trying to give her directions in dungeons only to find that her character stood facing a wall whilst she ever so lightly was heard snoring.
This made us smile and chuckle as we continued the dungeons knowing she would awake and joins us again.
However she is gone now and passed peacefully in her sleep, never to wake again and say "I wasn’t sleeping"

The Order of Stolas would like to thank everyone who attended the memorial on the evening of the 20.10.20 and at such short notice to pay your respects and my hart melted when I saw the sheer number of people from all factions (Friends and enemies alike) put their differences aside and rode side by side to the church at Brindle (Blackreach) where Aldmeri Dominion, Ebonheart Pact and Daggerfall Covenant proudly displayed their alliance flags in honor of a fallen Gamer, a Comrade and a friend.

A shrine in her honor has been resurrected at the Order of Stolas Guild House and open to anyone, to come and pay your respects.

To Nanny’s Family we would like to express or deepest condolences and would like to thank you for sharing Nanny with us even if it was just for a little while.
She will forever have a special place in our hearts.

May Lord Stolas guide and protect her on her journey to the afterlife.

Lord Etrigan
Guild Master of the Order of Stolas

Link to the memorial video: https://youtu.be/tiA_vPMhtS4

Ps. Sadly the event memorial was interrupted by a bomber who thought it funny to bomb everyone paying their respect in the church .

Sylvermynx

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. May the Order of Stolas live long and prosper in memory of Nanny.

Chaos2088

MinnesotaKid

That is so sad and I can only hope I can live life as well as she obviously did in order to have people care about me as you cared about her. You're a testament to her life.

My condolences go out to all involved...so sorry for your loss.

Lord_Etrigan

Thanks for all the condolences guys. She will be missed.

Lord_Etrigan

It would be nice if Eso could provide a editable tombstone or shrine to their furniture store. That way it will allow one to personalize it.

Lord_Etrigan

ImSoPro wrote: »

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One would have hoped with it being a church and so many gatherers inside that some common sense would prevail.

method__01

very sad news,my condolences to her family

Reverb

My condolences on the loss of your friend. May her legacy live on in your hearts.

Lord_Etrigan

Thanks guys, sadly just saw a video of the bomber bragging on youtube of the great bombing he did at the memorial.

Sylvermynx

As my dad used to say, most people are decent, but there's always the ones that are no damn good.

Idinuse

This moved me to so much tears I'm a complete mess.
LOVE!

Lord_Etrigan

Idinuse wrote: »

This moved me to so much tears I'm a complete mess.
LOVE!

Thank you so much, that really means a lot to me :'(

Odovacar

Sorry for your loss

Lord_Etrigan

Odovacar wrote: »

Sorry for your loss

Thank you

deviousthevile

I am sorry to hear this. I might be from PC/NA, but we too recently lost one of our nicest players. After fighting cancer for years, our very own PrenticeFirestorm was taken away from us. I really appreciate seeing the respect and love here where most people just want to argue. Best wishes to you all!

Lord_Etrigan

deviousthevile wrote: »

I am sorry to hear this. I might be from PC/NA, but we too recently lost one of our nicest players. After fighting cancer for years, our very own PrenticeFirestorm was taken away from us. I really appreciate seeing the respect and love here where most people just want to argue. Best wishes to you all!

Thank you and also condolences for your loss. Loosing a friend is never easy.

finger88

Thanks 4 sharing... Beautiful memorial to your friend..

Lord_Etrigan

finger88 wrote: »

Thanks 4 sharing... Beautiful memorial to your friend..

Thank you.

xclassgaming

Lord_Etrigan wrote: »

Thanks guys, sadly just saw a video of the bomber bragging on youtube of the great bombing he did at the memorial.

Sadly, absolute scum bags exist in any games, don't worry, karma will get them at somepoint

I'm sorry for your loss, hopefully she rests easy.

BomblePants

♥️ Rest in love Nanny Bean Bag ♥️




Don’t pay any attention to the bomber.... some people are just tossers....

Elvenheart

I am very sorry for the loss of someone that sounds like such a wonderful person. The world is made lesser by the loss of each single point of light such as hers. Thank you for sharing your heartfelt tribute with the rest of us.

Lord_Etrigan

Thanks guys, yeah a lot of people were upset about it and the bomber did get a good scolding.
But yes karma can be unforgiving.

CrashTest

Sorry for your loss.

huntgod_ESO

Condolences...

Just curious why you chose to do this in Cyrodil? I'm not saying the bomber isn't as ***, I would never have done that, but why have it in a zone where that is a very likely possibility?

doomette

Pauls wrote: »

xclassgaming wrote: »

Lord_Etrigan wrote: »

Thanks guys, sadly just saw a video of the bomber bragging on youtube of the great bombing he did at the memorial.

Sadly, absolute scum bags exist in any games, don't worry, karma will get them at somepoint

I'm sorry for your loss, hopefully she rests easy.

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...it’s not RP when they’re memorializing someone who actually died. A real, actual person. If it needs to be explained to you why this is scummy, well, you know what, nevermind.


To the OP: My condolences, truly. The memorial was very sweet.

doomette

huntgod_ESO wrote: »

Condolences...

Just curious why you chose to do this in Cyrodil? I'm not saying the bomber isn't as ***, I would never have done that, but why have it in a zone where that is a very likely possibility?

All of the memorials I’ve seen have been in Cyrodiil.

huntgod_ESO

doomette wrote: »

huntgod_ESO wrote: »

Condolences...

Just curious why you chose to do this in Cyrodil? I'm not saying the bomber isn't as ***, I would never have done that, but why have it in a zone where that is a very likely possibility?

All of the memorials I’ve seen have been in Cyrodiil.

I've got to be honest, I haven't watched many memorial videos, but the question remains, why choose Cyrodil?

To me that seems like if you lost a family member who was in the service and when looking at ALL the different places for a memorial, you choose one next to the Westboro Baptist Church.

I'm not trying to be disrespectful, I understand how hard it is to lose a loved one, neither of my parents lived to see 65, but Cyrodil just seems a really weird choice for something that you don't want disrupted.

doomette

huntgod_ESO wrote: »

doomette wrote: »

huntgod_ESO wrote: »

Condolences...

Just curious why you chose to do this in Cyrodil? I'm not saying the bomber isn't as ***, I would never have done that, but why have it in a zone where that is a very likely possibility?

All of the memorials I’ve seen have been in Cyrodiil.

I've got to be honest, I haven't watched many memorial videos, but the question remains, why choose Cyrodil?

To me that seems like if you lost a family member who was in the service and when looking at ALL the different places for a memorial, you choose one next to the Westboro Baptist Church.

I'm not trying to be disrespectful, I understand how hard it is to lose a loved one, neither of my parents lived to see 65, but Cyrodil just seems a really weird choice for something that you don't want disrupted.

That I don’t know. Tradition? Maybe it once had a pragmatic reason, like something to do with One Tamriel barring certain regions for characters unless they were doing Caldwell Silver/Gold? Or the first memorial was for a prominent PVPer and it stuck? I have no idea.

TheImperfect

Many condolences, sounds like she was amazing.

Lord_Etrigan

mrsrobot wrote: »

Many condolences, sounds like she was amazing.

Thank you