servers are after very serious update aka greymoord, and still there is flaws, groups are not perfect normally but playable. also depend on which server (EU/NA, prime time or no)...your configuration is more than enough to run eso on one screen and skyrim on second
I didn't have this problem before the Greymoor patch
It seems to me that the game is very broken at the moment
Everything ran smoothly on the ultra setup, I'm disappointed with this patch and a lot.
somehow they manage to fix the server everytime. even after normal maintenance first day i don't even tray to play. i hope they make game again playable after next maintenance at 03.06. and it is playable for most people actually now. they know for this bug lag/freezing/shuttering/fps etc. there are couple of discussions.