Hey guys. First off, I'd like to say I'm new to MMOs. ESO is the first I've gotten into and I joined a few weeks ago.
My main is a Breton Templar. (And a vampire for RP purposes, which I know is a huge weakness in dungeons, but that's fine.) Currently all my points are dumped into magicka. I'm still only at about CP100; I'm a roleplayer so I don't spend a TON of time grinding.
I'm kind of facing a dilemma where I don't want to make a second character just to swap roles, but when I'm playing by myself-- say queueing up for dungeon finder or what have you --I always go healer. But my RP guild has a lot of people who go healer, so when I do dungeons with them, I normally slot myself as DPS because ironically that's always what we end up missing.
The problem is I have a bit of difficulty being particularly viable in either role. I always feel like an underwhelming support, but also like I don't do enough damage. Granted that's partially because I forget to use buff items a lot, I think. But I also think my build is flawed.
Having 2 sets of armor and swapping ritual stones before queueing as healer/DPS wouldn't bother me, nor would having 2 completely different ability sets, even if it would be tedious. But as someone who's not super well-versed in MMOs, I think I just struggle to build in general. People say do what's fun and that's all well and good except I want to actually matter in dungeons and eventually go on to vet trials, without having to grind out a completely second character.
I have held onto the respec scrolls you get from leveling up because I knew eventually I'd have to respec because the less baby-oriented the dungeons are, the more I notice massive flaws in my kit, but I'm nervous about spending them and just coming up with the same weaknesses. So if someone could help me strike a middle ground where I can play both healer and DPS situationally that would be very much appreciated. I have already gotten a lot of skyshards so if it would take a lot of points between passives and skills and stuff that's not an issue.