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Veteran content Loot / Skin / Achievement Sales problem

  • SidraWillowsky
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    This is going to sound flippant, but I don't mean for it to...

    I'm sorry that that happened to you, OP. It sounds like it was greatly distressing for you, and something that you play for fun shouldn't cause you that level of grief. That said... there are SO many fantastic guilds out there. I've currently got four that I couldn't be happier with, and they're full of great people and no drama. This is where the flippant part comes in... find another guild? I've been through some duds but seriously, they're out there and running progression runs with no elitism or anything. They've welcomed me with open arms and were happy to allow me to run progression runs and have been super understanding as I work to get the hang of things.

    I don't know much about the side of the game where people pay for achievements, but I DO think they're a good way for people who JUST want the skins to get them without suffering through a million vSS runs (that skin is cool as hell btw).

    And I'm super sorry- I honestly couldn't get through your whole post. But if you're still interested in progression yourself, have you checked Guild Fair Friday on Reddit?

    https://www.reddit.com/r/elderscrollsonline/

    Or the subreddit dedicated to finding a guild? It's linked in the sidebar of the subreddit.
  • magictucktuck
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    I don't necessarily take issue with the practice, but I take issue with the elitism.

    that being said wtf were you doing raiding with these people for years?

    they are hundreds of prog trials guilds out there looking for a decent tank. So it really sounds like all your complaints are on you and could have been avoided easily.

    I'm in a great raiding guild now and we sometimes have to spend extra time for one person who just isn't getting it. but we have completed every dlc trial in less than 3, 1.5 hour attempts, for the first clear. After that none take over and hour. and there are ton of groups just like us. I suggest just finding new friends, instead of sticking with a bunch of high school kids?
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  • Thannazzar
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    Personally I'd rather have an influence or token system for cosmetics ie run the trial/dungeon on hard mode once, vet 5 times or normal 25 times to get the cosmetic unlocked.

    Better yet put the cosmetic on normal and have decent progression gear rewards attached to challenging content that enable those who like the challenge to progress in a meaningful way.
  • ThisOnePosts
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    I voted Other.

    I think people should be "allowed" within reason to make such arrangements, however if ZOS makes the content more accessible to those without static learning groups, etc... it will seriously diminish the carry-sellers (who spam chat over and over btw,) profit.

    Also the best skins/titles/pets/mounts from such content should be attainable via some Solo-mode version of it where you get some NPC followers or w/e -- they can be more creative than they currently are that's for sure!

    This would at least allow people to experience the stories, gain what they need, etc... without having to pay. I'm someone who figures stuff out for myself, tests my own builds, wrecks havoc in PvX, helps people just to help them, and think the carry-selling is hurting actual groups being formed more than anything.

    So yes, ZOS needs to do something. However they have an opportunity to create a new way to approach content with doing "something" about it and while still leaving the option open for the truly and utterly lazy lol.
  • Thannazzar
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    Would rather see a system of tokens or influence, ie do a trial/dungeon on hard mode once, vet 5 times or normal 25 times to get the cosmetic unlocked.

    Better yet put the cosmetic on normal and have decent progression gear rewards attached to challenging content that enable those who like the challenge to progress in a meaningful way.
    Edited by Thannazzar on October 16, 2019 3:39PM
  • Raisin
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    @gatekeeper13 Honestly, while it is 100% on the healer to not be a ***... Even as a PUG, the group still really should've had your back and kicked that healer. Unless it was in whispers and they didn't know.
  • FakeFox
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    Being a part of the raiding community for around four years or so, I did never experience anything negative in that regard. I was a part of multiple different carry groups and the leaders always acted fair and professional. I never saw people only doing carry runs or leaving the game after. Most endgame players I know do carry runs as a easy and fun way to finance their other raiding activities, housing or crown trading, but otherwise don't particularly care about money.
    As a leader or officer in multiple raiding guild/groups I also barely encountered problems with players being carried. Players rarely try to abuse carry runs for getting into other raids and it is rather easy to find out if someone actually got carried or not. Carried players in general never caused me any issues, as the majority are PvP players or traders that just want certain gear or a cool looking skin, but have no interest in raiding otherwise.

    I am sorry for you having such a bad experience. But just because some people have a bad experience with something does not mean that it is bad in general and needs to go. In the end you could have made similar experiences without carry runs being a thing as well. There are enough idiots in this game, just like anywhere else and it is on you to decide who you interact with.
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  • gatekeeper13
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    Raisin wrote: »
    @gatekeeper13 Honestly, while it is 100% on the healer to not be a ***... Even as a PUG, the group still really should've had your back and kicked that healer. Unless it was in whispers and they didn't know.

    Nope, it wasnt whisper. It was visible by all group members.

    The rest of the group didnt care because he was a good healer and they just wanted to complete the dungeon.
    Edited by gatekeeper13 on October 16, 2019 4:07PM
  • deepseamk20b14_ESO
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    I’m an advocate of working towards goals. Too many people come to the forums asking for hand outs or things to be easier. An achievement isn’t much of an achievement if even the worst players who put no time into it can get it. If you got kicked from a group though, that’s sucks. Doesn’t sound fun. Challenge yourself to be better though so you won’t get kicked OR join another guild. That freedom is YOURS. Plenty of casual guilds out there.

    However, devils advocate here. If someone wants to pay a stupid amount of gold (and really it’s stupid) they can. It’s better than ZoS catering towards whiners and making the game easier. If they spent weeks or months farming 6 million gold for some skin, then more power to them. A service is provided and someone is willing to pay for it AND it doesn’t affect you. Welcome to the free market.
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  • Raisin
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    Raisin wrote: »
    @gatekeeper13 Honestly, while it is 100% on the healer to not be a ***... Even as a PUG, the group still really should've had your back and kicked that healer. Unless it was in whispers and they didn't know.

    Nope, it wasnt whisper. It was visible by all group members.

    The rest of the group didnt care because he was a good healer and they just wanted to complete the dungeon.

    That's pretty damn sad. Again, it's not technically their fault... But watching someone get harassed to *** because you don't wanna queue for another 5 minutes is pretty gross.
  • LadyNalcarya
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    No, please, we do not need any more rng-based mechanics, runeboxes that are split into 9000 different parts or anything like that. It's just a lazy way to add more replayability and it's much less fair than getting skins for completing a dungeon or trial.
    Getting my vMA staff took me about 100 runs, I've never gotten any of the rare drops such as vAS polymorph or Aetheric Cipher, and if I'd have to grind for all cosmetic items, I'd rather quit. Rng is inherently unfair.

    Honestly, I'm sorry that you've been bullied, it sounds like those people weren't your friends after all. But not all guilds are like this, and I hope that you will find a group that would respect you. There are many groups in need of experienced tanks, and I'm sure that they would welcome you. Or, alternatively, you can organize a group of your own, so that you will never be in this situation again.

    However, carrying and training are two different things. Carry is essentially a service, and people who buy them usually aren't interested in pve progression for one reason or another (for example, pvpers or casual pvers). One cannot demand free services from strangers, so your example with a girl who wanted to get a carry as a birthday gift doesn't really prove anything. If I was a raid leader, I'd probably decline that too unless everyone in group wanted to do it.

    A little off-topic: I feel like this whole thing with "good groups should carry others or they are bad people" sounds a bit like people who demand free services from artists/designers/whatever in exchange for "exposure", because "it's easy anyway so don't be a b*tch and make me a banner/draw a portrait of my SO/etc". Cyber bullying is toxic, but so is entitlement.

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  • nordmarian
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    I'm not really complaining about not getting paid, I was only stating out a situation that can occur. What made me feel bad was that I was in a team whom split the money unfairly and some did not received it. That caught me in the middle. Imagine yourself that you invite some good friends into your team and you get paid and they not. Drama. And second part was the fact that I was unable to raid with few of my good friends I've met through this game, whom got more interested into carry runs and less into raiding for progression scores and fun.

    off topic:

    As for getting replaced, yes, it happens everywhere, but what happened with me was that last year I was bullied, on my birthday, after only 2 raids on the PTS in a new trial for all of us. To make the situation worse, I was told in face that they simply used me because their other tank did not wanted to join the test server, and also conveniently enough for them I was bringing new people to the team. People whom I got split from and I was not able to raid with them anymore. People whom eventually left the game sooner or later and I miss them! They never gave me the chance to progress, improve, learn, and play with my friends, not even as a backup even if they had free spots. They rather invited some randoms or cancelled the raid. It is simply common sense that if a group of people whom are close friends come to you together, they both stay or leave. You do not split them! Toxic team behavior, not explaining and understanding that everyone need to learn and adapt a new content.

    I was part of many end game teams whom took me as an applicant and I left without causing a scene or drama because people were much more clear from day one about how the things are going. You are joining for a trial period, you are trained, tested, evaluated, told about your mistakes in a very calm and polite way, and I could go on. I did had a raid team once whom were nicely enough to farm sets for me the day before the raid! Guided me step by step and told me the importance of staking adds in a certain way or playing a mechanic in a specific manner. Helped me farming certain gears from that trial as well etc.

    And I was part of teams whom simply stated you are a bad tank, you are not doing x mechanic, but they did not know HOW to explain or HOW to help you to play that specific mechanic. There is one thing to tell your tank to "stack two adds" and a hole different thing to tell your tank where he should position himself, where he should move the adds and how, or explained mechanics in a much more understanding way.

    Also, when two people whom had a problem in the past are meting eachother again they should simply move on, make peace with eachother and raid in peace together and not cause scenes like. I'm out. I don't want to play with x or y. Or replace this person from team causing drama.
  • LadyNalcarya
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    nordmarian wrote: »
    I'm not really complaining about not getting paid, I was only stating out a situation that can occur. What made me feel bad was that I was in a team whom split the money unfairly and some did not received it. That caught me in the middle. Imagine yourself that you invite some good friends into your team and you get paid and they not. Drama. And second part was the fact that I was unable to raid with few of my good friends I've met through this game, whom got more interested into carry runs and less into raiding for progression scores and fun.

    off topic:

    As for getting replaced, yes, it happens everywhere, but what happened with me was that last year I was bullied, on my birthday, after only 2 raids on the PTS in a new trial for all of us. To make the situation worse, I was told in face that they simply used me because their other tank did not wanted to join the test server, and also conveniently enough for them I was bringing new people to the team. People whom I got split from and I was not able to raid with them anymore. People whom eventually left the game sooner or later and I miss them! They never gave me the chance to progress, improve, learn, and play with my friends, not even as a backup even if they had free spots. They rather invited some randoms or cancelled the raid. It is simply common sense that if a group of people whom are close friends come to you together, they both stay or leave. You do not split them! Toxic team behavior, not explaining and understanding that everyone need to learn and adapt a new content.

    I was part of many end game teams whom took me as an applicant and I left without causing a scene or drama because people were much more clear from day one about how the things are going. You are joining for a trial period, you are trained, tested, evaluated, told about your mistakes in a very calm and polite way, and I could go on. I did had a raid team once whom were nicely enough to farm sets for me the day before the raid! Guided me step by step and told me the importance of staking adds in a certain way or playing a mechanic in a specific manner. Helped me farming certain gears from that trial as well etc.

    And I was part of teams whom simply stated you are a bad tank, you are not doing x mechanic, but they did not know HOW to explain or HOW to help you to play that specific mechanic. There is one thing to tell your tank to "stack two adds" and a hole different thing to tell your tank where he should position himself, where he should move the adds and how, or explained mechanics in a much more understanding way.

    Also, when two people whom had a problem in the past are meting eachother again they should simply move on, make peace with eachother and raid in peace together and not cause scenes like. I'm out. I don't want to play with x or y. Or replace this person from team causing drama.

    This sounds horrible to be honest. If people tell you in your face that they're just using you etc, then you should just leave and forget them. And if your "friends" didnt object to that, then they are not your friends. Again, I'm sorry that you had to deal with all of this, but there's literally no reason to be in a group that treated you like this. This is not the norm in the community and you shouldn't put up with this even if you really want skins/titles/whatever.
    There are still training guilds, even though the endgame community nowadays is smaller than it used to be. Nothing justifies toxicity, but raid leaders are free to set requirements for their trials, and if they only want experienced players, it's their choice.
    Edited by LadyNalcarya on October 16, 2019 7:53PM
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  • nordmarian
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    Also I still think it will be very nice to have a counter on how many times we cleared a specific content. That will actually show a player skill in front of someone who did a new content hard mode, whom might got carried or not.
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    nordmarian wrote: »
    Also I still think it will be very nice to have a counter on how many times we cleared a specific content. That will actually show a player skill in front of someone who did a new content hard mode, whom might got carried or not.

    Not a bad idea tbh, it could help us to keep track of farming runs. You'd know exactly how many runs it took to get a specific set or weapon. :D
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  • Araneae6537
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    Raisin wrote: »
    Raisin wrote: »
    @gatekeeper13 Honestly, while it is 100% on the healer to not be a ***... Even as a PUG, the group still really should've had your back and kicked that healer. Unless it was in whispers and they didn't know.

    Nope, it wasnt whisper. It was visible by all group members.

    The rest of the group didnt care because he was a good healer and they just wanted to complete the dungeon.

    That's pretty damn sad. Again, it's not technically their fault... But watching someone get harassed to *** because you don't wanna queue for another 5 minutes is pretty gross.

    It is absolutely their fault if they stand by and say nothing! At the least someone should have told the healer to stop or be kicked. And if the majority of the players were too selfish to care, those with some conscience should have left the group.

    I’m sorry that happened to you, @gatekeeper13 I have zero tolerance for disrespect or worse whether directed toward myself or other players. It hasn’t happened often and most of the time dropping from group or kicking is sufficient but behavior such as you describe warrants reporting.
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    I could write a book replying to the original poster, but I'm tired, so I'm just going to say a couple of things.

    Veteran trial guilds have some of the most toxic people in the entire game. The toxicity is beyond measure. It is absolutely unacceptable. I was part of a guild that had several members who part of another guild that was working towards vet trials. Every time they finished working on a trial, they would tell me their toxic horror stories.

    Any vet trial guild that tries to stop people from legitimately clearing vet trials so that the corrupt guild can profit off them is WRONG. You were treated quite badly, and I'm sorry about that.

    A unfortunate side effect of people selling skins and titles is that those things lose all meaning in general. I've had a lot of people in my guilds get a vet dlc helm or a vet trial title and they were so happy. It was a nice thing to see. But it's just sad that there's no way to know if a person did something legitimately or not ever since everything became a commodity in this game.

    Etc.



  • Recent
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    Endgame is toxic. I noticed more run sales being advertised on zone chat since wow people came over here and started clearing end content. That was always going on in wow and to bring it to eso.....cant get away from toxic players.
    Game communities are just a reflection of our society in the real world where greed is out of control.
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