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Special Shout Out to a Great Group of Friends

Odovacar
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Hello forum fam,

I'm not the one to share personal information to the masses but recently I've been in awe with a special group of friends I've had to pleasure of playing with & knowing for years on ESO.

For a little over 2 years my eldest son has been battling a rare form of brain cancer. Our family is strong and we've endured together through the good and the bad. He's been in remission for close to 1 year. Recently we've had another scare with his check-up MRI scans. He will need another surgery, but we know in our heart everything will be ok!

My guildies who've been good friends to me have been such a great support. I never could imagine when I first started playing ESO that it could be even more than a game. TESO has been such a great escape for me at the end of the day, almost certifiably therapeutic. I've recently taken a little break but plan to be back once things settle down.

I, like most of us have many friends and family we lean upon during tough times, but I feel even more blessed to have such a caring group of gamer buddies who check in on me and my family regularly since I've told them the new news.

I would like to send lots of love and respect to GM's @BigL & @jc @POKE_ from Eyes of The Queen, PS4 NA. You and so many others have been wonderful and I look forward to many more years of gaming together!


#ESOFAM
Edited by Odovacar on May 23, 2019 11:35PM
Father of 3 ESO player - Daily late night logins ; )
RIP my Eldest son Aiden who we lost to brain cancer 7/13/20.

If you want to achieve higher rewards it will not be easy, at first. Never give up on yourself IRL or in-game!

PS4: NA & EU
Remember to have fun because at the end of the day that's what this whole gaming thing is about.
  • BomblePants
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    Best best wishes for your family and especially your son <3
  • IzzyStardust
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    ❤️ All the best to you and yours!
  • AlnilamE
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    Wishing your son a speedy recovery.

    And yes, there are many great people in this game, I'm glad you found your guild.
    The Moot Councillor
  • Odovacar
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    Thank you everyone! I appreciate all your well wishes!
    Father of 3 ESO player - Daily late night logins ; )
    RIP my Eldest son Aiden who we lost to brain cancer 7/13/20.

    If you want to achieve higher rewards it will not be easy, at first. Never give up on yourself IRL or in-game!

    PS4: NA & EU
    Remember to have fun because at the end of the day that's what this whole gaming thing is about.
  • CMDR_Un1k0rn
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    Best wishes OP, and much love from myself and Germanica, my spiritual guide.

    I completely agree that the ESO community is great.
    A dude who likes tanking.

    Jurgeld the Stalwart, Sergeant - Nord Dragonknight, EP
    Next character now being decided...

    PC-EU
    PvP campaign - Ravenwatch
  • Takes-No-Prisoner
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    Odovacar wrote: »
    Hello forum fam,

    I'm not the one to share personal information to the masses but recently I've been in awe with a special group of friends I've had to pleasure of playing with & knowing for years on ESO.

    For a little over 2 years my eldest son has been battling a rare form of brain cancer. Our family is strong and we've endured together through the good and the bad. He's been in remission for close to 1 year. Recently we've had another scare with his check-up MRI scans. He will need another surgery, but we know in our heart everything will be ok!

    My guildies who've been good friends to me have been such a great support. I never could imagine when I first started playing ESO that it could be even more than a game. TESO has been such a great escape for me at the end of the day, almost certifiably therapeutic. I've recently taken a little break but plan to be back once things settle down.

    I, like most of us have many friends and family we lean upon during tough times, but I feel even more blessed to have such a caring group of gamer buddies who check in on me and my family regularly since I've told them the new news.

    I would like to send lots of love and respect to GM's @BigL & @jc from Eyes of The Queen, PS4 NA. You and so many others have been wonderful and I look forward to many more years of gaming together!


    #ESOFAM

    PS4 NA player here.

    My IRL Family has also been dealing with Cancer this year. Someone I am close to has been dealing with skin Cancer for many years now. I too also use ESO as an escape, I play PvP to help unload the anger I have over not being able to help cure others of their Cancer.

    Keep your chin up. Stay positive. Stay strong Brother! We can defeat this nemesis! <3

  • NordSwordnBoard
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    Best wishes for you and your family OP.
    Also, good job with making a positive thread, always a shortage of those.
    "You get that blithe assumption that the status quo will always remain - or that this guy is so bad he's got to go. Neither are necessarily true, nor necessarily false." - Michael Kozak
  • FierceSam
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    Lovely to hear one of the many uplifting stories about this game and its community.

    People in this game can be so fantastic.

    Love to you all.
  • sevomd69
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    My 16 yo daughter is a 2 time survivor...the first time we found she had it...she was 8...then she she had a recurrence about 1.5 years ago...the first time I would spend all night after everyone had gone to sleep...by myself...just worrying about my little girl...when it happened the second time...I was deep in the throes of my ESO addiction...after a time away from ESO...I realized that I didn't have to be alone late at night when irl was asleep...the ESO community on XBNA was wonderful during this trying time...and I will forever be grateful to this game and its community...

    EDIT: BTW...Cancer Sucks!
    Edited by sevomd69 on May 23, 2019 6:37PM
  • Icy_Waffles
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    Wow. I gotta say. Usually “shoutouts” make me roll my eyes and wonder if the poster should just deal with their feelings in a less public place- like personally thanking individuals. But this actually was good to read. It points to the idea that behind characters in a fantasy game there are real people with various backgrounds all playing this game together. It reminds us to be kind to one another and just be decent human beings- we never know what the other person is going through. Best of luck with your son, stay strong TC.
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