I'd love to have Contraband Violet hair.

Dont know, but if Summerset is kinda like Toussaint. Then it could have a bit brighter and more colorful color palette.

Beauclair


Alinor


A little contrast boost there and here and much better Just an idea :P But even without it. SUMMERSET FTW!

Success? More like a disaster if you ask me. PvP players are leaving fed up with ZOS and their tests. The only thing ZOS is accomplishing is destroying PvP. In beta PvP was awesome massive fights, massive numbers of players in each faction and none of the problems we are seeing and experiencing today. ZOS turned that around with their constant changes.

confirmed: it is and forever has been (and forever will be) - the healers fault...

EvilAutoTech schrieb: »

I want my fat Nord's katana handles both above his right shoulder. I also want an orange tunic and a dog named Rufferto, but that's just me.

Only a mendicant would be attired so.

LadyNalcarya schrieb: »

Raideen schrieb: »

LadyNalcarya schrieb: »

Raideen schrieb: »

Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me. I wish more people learned this valuable lesson.

People should not put up with discrimination, though. Things like racism, sexism etc lead to much more than just "hurt feelings". Of course, harassment in games is only a small part of a big problem, but it doesn't mean that it's not a problem at all.

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I have delt with people making fun of me for physical imperfections for over 30 years. I learned a long time ago that the best way to deal with it, was to ignore their commentary...because what they were saying was not true, it was just being said to be hurtful. I stop letting it hurt me and life is better.

The biggest change any person can do to the world, is change themselves.

So in other words, we should blame the victims of harassment for "allowing it to hurt them" instead of harassers? That's not very constructive. Sure, it's not possible to get rid of all evil, but it doesn't mean that we should give up trying and just accept it. Mental health is a real thing, and trying to harm people psychologically is no better than trying to hit them.
Shifting focus from perpetrators to victims only empowers said perpetrators and creates a very unwelcoming atmosphere. Games are supposed to be fun for everyone participating, they're not here to test your mental strength or something. Harassment is already against ESO rules, the problem is that these rules aren't enforced as often as they should be.

It's not about blame. It's about taking responsibility to do what you can do as an individual, and in fact its the embodiment of being constructive. And I never said we should give in to evil, but what you and many others are suggesting is an authoritarian rule that expects everyone to be in a little box. The very action of interaction also dictates that both parties must prepare for results that go against their desire.

Secondly. Actual harassment and what many call harassment are two totally, completely different things.

I get harassed DAILY on these forums and nothing is done about it. I go out of my way to ensure the conversation is on topic and civil, and I am constantly bullied. I know this means I am on point, [snip]

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LadyNalcarya schrieb: »

Raideen schrieb: »

Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me. I wish more people learned this valuable lesson.

People should not put up with discrimination, though. Things like racism, sexism etc lead to much more than just "hurt feelings". Of course, harassment in games is only a small part of a big problem, but it doesn't mean that it's not a problem at all.

[snip]

I have delt with people making fun of me for physical imperfections for over 30 years. I learned a long time ago that the best way to deal with it, was to ignore their commentary...because what they were saying was not true, it was just being said to be hurtful. I stop letting it hurt me and life is better.

The biggest change any person can do to the world, is change themselves.

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Shadowspawn42 schrieb: »

SteveCampsOut schrieb: »

[snip] You did the right thing with the tools ZOS has given. You ignore and reported them. Thankfully you didn't name and shame them and get this thread deleted. While I admire your restraint in not speaking to them, bringing it up in the forums is just giving them the power they craved. If they see the post they will know they achieved their goal of getting under your skin. [snip]

So it’s wrong to inform people of the problem and wrong to try to get the attention of ZOS so they will fix it? Hmmm. Can’t say I agree with you there. It’s important to discuss issues like this so people know what to watch out for and people who have experienced similar things know they aren’t alone.
Edit: Also, you do realize this goes way beyond “being mean” right? Based on OP’s description, this sounds like legit hate speech meant to intimidate and degrade. So yeah, I don’t blame her for being upset.

[snip] I only pointed out that she gave the trolls what they wanted. A reaction that they can see clearly on the forums. That's just a simple fact. She can do with it as she likes.

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[snip] You did the right thing with the tools ZOS has given. You ignore and reported them. Thankfully you didn't name and shame them and get this thread deleted. While I admire your restraint in not speaking to them, bringing it up in the forums is just giving them the power they craved. If they see the post they will know they achieved their goal of getting under your skin. [snip]

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